Reasons why you should marry as a bvirgin

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*10 ADVANTAGES OF MARRYING AS A VIRGIN*


1. People who marry as virgins are more patient with their spouses when things go wrong. This is because virgins have high level of endurance. They are those who mostly practice ''for better or worse'' phrase in the marital vows.


2. Women who marry as virgins are usually submissive, especially if they keep their virginity for the fear of God. A woman who submits to God by keeping her virginity will submit to her husband. If she doesn't submit to God, who are you mortal husband? Except there is a genuine conversion.


3. People who marry as virgins are often faithful to their spouses. Virgins have solid moral values!


4. Virgins enjoy better sex after marriage. This is because they have no past sexual experiences to compare with the current experiences. They just gladly receive what they get on bed.


5. Virgins are not selfish. They often consider the interests of their spouses in taking decisions and don't want to do things that would hurt their spouses.


6. Virgins make good parents. They endeavour to instill great moral values in their children, like abstaining from sex outside marriage. This they boldly do using their own lives as example.


7. Virgins have great level of contentment. They are often peaceful and satisfied with what they have without overly exposing themselves to things that would threaten their peace.


8. Marrying as a virgin puts you at a very low position of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Virgins are often free from both sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted demons.


9. Unique spiritual bond. It is said that there is a unique spiritual bond when a husband has sex with his virgin bride, especially if the man is also a virgin. Honeymoon of virgin bride and virgin groom is awesome!


10. Virgins have happy marriage. At the Institute for Family Studies, Nicholas Wolfinger, a sociologist at the University of Utah, has found that Americans who have only ever slept with their spouses are most likely to report being in a very happy marriage.


Contrary to conventional wisdom, when it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage, said W. Bradford Wilcox, a sociologist and senior fellow at the Institute for Family Studies.


*I fell into premarital sex, is that the end of my life?*

Staying virgin till marriage is very important and has many advantages as seen above. However, falling into premarital sex is not the end of your life. It is wrong to think that once you lose your sexual purity, it cannot be restored. Though not virgin, Jesus Christ can restore your purity (Colossians 1:21 - 22). If you committed premarital sex, then you must repent and God will grant you His grace.


Sexual purity is God's will for you, but falling into sexual sin doesn't mean you are damaged goods with no hope of restoration. God is still gracious, He can restore your sexual purity, and grant you intimacy and happiness in marriage. What you need to do is to repent and return to Him.


If someone sinned against you in a case of sexual assault, know that you are still loved by God and your purity is not taken away from you. It's wrong to think that you are pure because you've never had sex. Being a virgin till marriage is very good but being a virgin is not the same as being pure. You are only pure when you accept Christ and God imputes the purity of Christ onto you, enabling you to live a holy life. If you are a Christian, then sexual assault cannot make you impure, you are pure in the sight of God because of your faith and life in Christ.


_You may contact Francis Botwe for a soft copy of his illustrated book, 'Sex Education - Handling Sexuality with godliness._

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_You may also visit FRANBOT TV for his videos on 'Christian Sex Education' from t

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